Monday, November 9, 2015

I Wish Somebody Would Have Told Me





How many times do we hear or say, “I wish somebody would have told me or taught me?” Who do we refer this “somebody” too? Is this “somebody” our parents, grandparents, mentors, teachers or instructors?





Do we often blame others for things we do not know?  Do we make excuses to self for not learning? Do we waste as time complaining about our problems, instead of, seeking new ways to solve them?  Who is at fault when failing to learn? Who is at fault for failing to share teachings about money and personal finances? Before these questions can be answered. Let’s look at the basic fundamentals of solving problems.



  • ·       To learn requires an action of study.
  • ·       To teach requires actions of sharing knowledge, skill, or instruction.


What if we have no teacher willing to teach us something new we want to learn? What if we have no money to attend college to learn something new?  What if we have a problem that we cannot solve and the problem just continues to exist? How does keeping a problem open help anyone? Learn new skills to close that old problem permanently!



The only person to blame for the stresses of personal problems created by money is self. This sad but true fact represents each individual life. How? Money produces insanity when money is not controlled. When money is spent faster than it can be made, it produces insane and stressful results and horrible consequences.

If a monthly income is only $1500 and the bills (expenses) total $1680, this is a huge problem! These are primary bills of necessities. This illustration is of:  housing (rent, own, lease payment), electricity, water, sewage, trash, transportation, and nothing else. How will a person be able to afford to toilet paper or food? They cannot! Why? Because $1680 of bills cannot be paid from a $1500 income. That’s $180 more than an income will allow! No one can pay $180 over the amount of income when they do not have it! What are some possible solutions?

Learn to downsize. Learn to respect that $1500 is the maximum amount of income to budget and control. No one should ever have to pay for $1800 a month lifestyle when you fail to manage your $1500 a month income.

How to slim bills to save money.
#1 – Decrease operating expenses. Turn off lights not needed. Unplug items when not in use.
#2 – Examine monthly bills closely. What is a necessity and what is a want or luxury? How much are late or interest fees?
#3 – What bills sustain your quality of life? What bills do not improve your life?
#4 – What is your monthly plan of what you want your money to do for you?
#5 – How do you want to decrease the stresses of your monthly income and expenses?
#6 – What is your active plan to take control of your money and income?

We used to have a valid excuse of not learning or never being taught in America. There used to be no tools available publically to learn for free.  

Today, we have the internet. This 24/7 library is open to anyone at any time! There are no more excuses of not learning to control money. There are no excuses of not being taught of how to responsibly manage money.

We can learn from watching free YouTube videos of college seminars about money management and financial literacy. We can do free Google searches of how to build or rebuild credit scores. We can learn new tools of financial options to increase our money and not decrease money through unwise choices. We can learn how to control our money and be responsible financial managers of our personal income and budgets. There are no excuses of not learning or not being able to teach through positive examples.

The good thing about learning new skills in money management is that we will decrease our stress and insanity of financial problems by learning how to decrease them! We can learn new skills to apply immediately to our monthly incomes to turn around the bad and stop the negative damages done.

Each financial situation and lifestyle is different. Each monthly budget and expenses must be calculated to the individual person and lifestyle. It takes customization and personalization. The biggest contributor of managing your finances and money is you.

There are nine things a college student should know. Why nine? Why a college student? These nine things are of money and budgeting money. As adults or new students, seeking to learn new skills of money; these college tips are a wonderful place to start when learning to control income and budgets.

What are the nine things we need to know about money?

·        What is a Personal Financial Plan?
·        What are my basic needs of survival that I can afford?
·        What are the wants I desire that have no bearing on my survival of life?
·        What is the total income that I must budget and respect?
·        What are the expenses I want or need to buy monthly to survive on?
·        What does equity have to do with my income?
·        What does depreciation have to do with the way I spend my money?
·        What does investment have to do with the items I purchase or pay for on credit accounts/cards?
·        Why should the cost of interest and late fees be a calculating factor of my income?


9 Things a College Student Should Know is a two-part video series. These videos total 36 minutes and 07 seconds of valuable information about money management of personal finance. The premise is “I Wish Somebody Would Have Told Me.”
Well someone is trying to teach you in these videos, so you will know. Will you watch this? Will you apply the new knowledge you learn? Will you share the learning with others to help them?


Money is a personal factor of our lives. Money will teach us the hardest lessons about our self and our lifestyles. Money can also help us to review our lifestyle choices to help us create positive changes to increase our quality of life too.

For many Americans, they have financial support from family, friends, banks, and good credit scores to help them learn from their financial mistakes.
 
1 of every 5 individuals has no one to depend on to increase their poor credit or bad credit of subprime scores. This is truly sad in the electronic digital age of mobile knowledge we have to increase learning and we fail not too.

Sure, economics can hurt our ability to have an income to survive and live upon. However, many more Americans do have money problems because they generally do the same practices with their money as they witnessed their parents or caregivers do. Why would any American settle for this? Why spend your money the way your parents did? Why budget your money as others do? Your money buys the life you have. Why not learn new skills and new knowledge to help your money do all it can for you?

As technology increases and internet is free at all libraries, we have no more excuses. We cannot blame anyone else for something we do not know.

If we will spend 30 minutes a day on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, or other social outlets and yet, not spend 30 minutes a day or even 30 minutes a week to learn about money management; than we can only blame self for money problems and not solving them.

Those who think they can control money, will. Those who think they cannot control money, will not. And those who want to try to control money, will learn how using whatever free tools are available. We have the global web. No excuses. No blaming. Money problems can be solved and controlled. Who wants the ultimate stress-free life of not worrying about money? This does requires new skills of learning and applying new knowledge. This is all that needs to be done. Hard to believe, huh? Facts are stranger than fiction, didn’t you know?